The Race & The Baby

The Race

Today was the big day, I ran my first 10K race! It was the first time I’d ever run 6.2 miles! I was so nervous and excited last night I could hardly sleep. My goal was just to make it thru the whole thing without having to slow down and walk, and I made it! In fact I figured my time would be around an hour and fifteen minutes, but I came in at an hour and three minutes. I set up a new music playlist on my mp3 player and just ran an easy pace the first five miles, conserving energy for the end, where I really pushed it. The inspiring thing to me was seeing all the elderly runners (mostly men). One man came in right around my time and I don’t know his age, but he was in the 75 years and up class! It was a little humbling when these guys would pass me, but encouraging nonetheless. That’s what I want to do… be in good enough shape to race in my golden years! Anyways, my average mile was 10:12, which was pretty exciting…I thought I’d be between 10:30 and 11 minutes a mile. But to think, when I ran in college, I got down to less than 7 minutes a mile! Anyhow, now I’m done, and the experience totally makes me want to do more…but not to worry, I’m laying off for the next 9 months. :)

The Baby

And speaking of, I went to my check up yesterday. The baby looks great and was even wiggling around for me, and the cyst is no longer of any concern at all, so I’m back to regular check ups. I have really enjoyed seeing all the growth and development every two weeks, so I’m going to miss it. I’m 11 weeks now, I go back at 15 weeks, and my next sonogram is at 20 weeks. Also, the placenta is getting close to being fully formed, which translates into very good news for me= I should start feeling back to normal soon! Just in time to not run anymore, haha.

One funny thing that happened while I was there… Since in my last appointment the baby was dancing, and I didn’t video tape it, I’ve had a few family members remind me to make sure I get it on video this time. My doctor doesn’t have a recorder, so I have to just video tape the screen with a camcorder. So I get into the room, and I tried to adjust the monitor that’s mounted on the wall so it would come out clearly…but to my dismay, the monitor went from a vertical position to a horizontal one. So there I am holding my lovely check up skirt around me, trying to adjust this monitor, when the doctor walks in. I was sooo embarrassed. She got up on a chair and tried to fix it but couldn’t. I really wanted to melt into the floor!! My doctor was so gracious and said not to worry, she’d call maintenance to fix it… ;)

Shelley’s Story

Ya know, I love blogging, but sometimes I feel like my own stories get a little…boring. Then I read people like Shelley Lubben’s, and think, “Ok, this I have to share.” This will make it worth your while, coming to read my blog.

This story is for anyone whose life has been affected in one way or another by the main sins of choice of our culture: sex (including porn), drugs, alcohol, unloving families, etc. And really, who hasn’t been either into that or effected by it in some way?! The reason I love Shelley’s story is because it holds out some much needed hope, that healing and love can still happen, and that change is possible! You don’t have to be a slave to sin. It’s refreshing, like being in the desert on a hot Texas day, and someone holding out a cold glass of water. Just what we needed, but not what we’d expect. The story’s a bit long, but totally worth the read. So without further adieu, here’s Shelley’s story.

Also, it would thrill me if you’d come back after you read it, and leave a comment with your thoughts/reactions. Seriously, I’d love to know what you think!

MAME Arcade Cabinet Update

My wonderful wife decided, for my upcoming birthday, to give me the thumbs up to get the parts that I needed to finish my MAME cabinet! I’m so stoked!

So I have been busy trying to bring things together. My good friend Anton just happened to have a set of extra buttons that he so graciously donated. I ordered the remaining buttons, 4 Mag-Stik joysticks and a I-PAC4 from Ultimarc.

While waiting for the parts to get here, I have also pulled together some old computer parts, installed Ubuntu Feisty with the Radeon frame buffer kernel driver (radeonfb), and AdvanceMame. In theory, this should allow me to run MAME on the original arcade monitor (*crosses fingers*) using my old Radeon 7500 card. I have also prototyped the control panel layout on card board.

No new pics yet, but I promise to post some as soon as I get the parts in. I’m really excited that everything is starting to come together!

Wow, 2 blogs in 1 day!

Yeah, I know, I’ve got a lot to say today. Also could be I don’t have much energy to do anything else. Less then 3 weeks left in this trimester…Woohoo!

Anyhow, it’s about time I put up some pics. I’ve been slacking in my lethargic state.

One of my favorite things: baby feet! These precious ones are my cousin’s 2 week old baby girl. And yes, I held her, too, hoping the girl thing would rub off.

Anna's Shower

And here she is, sweet Liliana. She is beautiful!

Anna's Shower

I got to meet her at my sister’s baby shower yesterday. And afterwards we managed to convince my sister’s husband to do a photo shoot. Here are a couple of my faves:

Anna and Charlie

Anna & Charlie

And on to the boys…

Here’s Charlie playing Guitar Hero with Daddy. Of course we think our kids are future rock stars! :)

Playing Guitar Hero

And the other day I went to wake Chance from a nap, but he looked so cute, I decided to go grab my camera and take a pic of his sweet peacefulness. But when I got back, this is what I got:

Chance

This expression is new for him, and he does it a lot…at the funniest times! The whole scrunched nose looks oddly like an expression his Mommy makes.

And Chance also recently graduated to eating cereal with milk, since he can truly master the spoon. Here’s his happy celebration with his first real bowl:

Chance

And one funny story that I don’t have a photo for… For 3 days in a row, while Chance and I would nap, I’d allow Charlie to stay awake watching movies. And for 3 days in a row, he found the big chocolate bars I had left over from making S’mores a week ago, and he would have a little feast. So I finally hid the candy where he couldn’t reach it (although there’s not much left!). So what’s he get into today? First he polishes off a carton of strawberry ice cream, and was halfway thru a pint of chocolate by the time I woke up! Tomorrow I think I’m gonna confine him to his room to read books while we sleep!

At least I got a Fancy New Pen

Ok, this is different from my normal posts, but I have an issue I thought I’d air out, see if I can lend any wisdom to anyone else. Maybe that’d make all this frustration worth it!

It seems that anytime we have anything medical done, we get “surprises” when it’s over, where we owe more than we expected.

If you have health insurance, you’ll quickly learn certain terms. Such as “in or out of network.” And “copay, deductible, and limit.” And of course, “HMO or PPO and EOB (explanation of benefits).” I think you need a law degree to really understand it all.

~Once we checked Chuck into an ER because his heart was beating way too fast and out of rhythm, and it was truly a life or death situation. Unfortunately they had to shock him twice (while he was awake!!), but praise God, that reset his heart, and things were back to normal. Then the cardiologist tells us we need to do a surgery as soon as possible so it doesn’t happen again, and he’s available to do it the next morning. The only catch is the hospital didn’t have room so we would have to go to another. But the hospital said that in order for our health insurance to cover it, he’d have to be transferred by ambulance. What we didn’t know is that the health insurance wouldn’t cover the ambulance whatsoever…so it cost us an extra $400 to go 10 miles. All so our insurance would cover the other stuff!?

~I found an oral surgeon in my network who did my wisdom teeth, and then I returned to him to have my jaw surgery. Since everything went fine billing wise the first time, I had no idea I’d have problems this time. A week before surgery, his billing person tells me that the insurance is saying he’s not in network, but not to worry, because they have a contract to prove they’re in network, and even if that doesn’t work, they’d take what insurance pays out of network, because it was actually more anyway, and just treat me as in network in what I’d owe personally. They required I pay the full amount ($1250) that would be owed to them beforehand, then if my insurance decided that amount should go to the hospital and anesthesiologist instead, then they’d refund the money to me afterwards.

After surgery I got a totally different story. Come to find out, they weren’t in network, because it was considered medical, not dental (they were in dental network but not the medical network). And then they went back on the agreement, and decided that I now owed thousands of dollars, even though my insurance had actually paid more than they would’ve gotten in network. Finally I found a letter they’d written that said I’d only owe that full amount that I paid before, and they decided to write off the extra…but then my insurance did decide that full amount should go to the hospital and anesthesiologist. Do you think they refunded me the money? No way. My surgery cost double what I’d expected.

~Recently Chuck and I decided to try out a dentist. I asked if they were with my insurance, and they said yes. So I went through my visit: cleaning, consultation, even lots of x-rays. They said I owed nothing, as per my insurance. But then when Chuck went in, they waited until he’d gone thru everything to inform him that they weren’t in network, and we owed $400 for the services. When I asked why they said they were with my insurance, they said “but you didn’t ask if we were ‘in network’, just if we were with them. We take them, we bill them as out of network.” Sneaky, sneaky…

~And on to my latest issue. Charlie’s dentist. I had red flags that I should have heeded earlier. With the first visit, I got a fancy new pen with his name on it. I should’ve wondered how he pays for things like that! ;) Before the second visit, they said they like to take the full amount that will be owed (including what insurance will pay) from me, and then reimburse me when insurance pays. When I told them I couldn’t afford that, they offered me a credit card application!! But then they told me they could do a “predetermination” with my insurance, which then showed the amount I’d owe, instead of a couple thousand dollars for Charlie’s fillings. We went in for that visit, but it didn’t work, so they didn’t collect any money from me.

So once again, they wanted thousands before trying the fillings in the hospital. Again, I asked for a predetermination. What wasn’t noticed is that my insurance only covers silver fillings, not white fillings. And what I didn’t know is this dentist only does white. And in the predetermination they checked to see if they could do only 2 fillings, and 2 root canals, and insurance said it’d pay $1600 and my cost would be $250 (plus $300 to hospital). The dentist told me that while Charlie was under anesthesia, if they found more that they deemed necessary to do, they’d do it, which meant my bill would be more. What I didn’t know is that he did EIGHT fillings instead of two that weren’t covered by insurance at all!! So a few weeks afterwards, I get some big bills. I called my insurance to see why they only paid $800 instead of $1600 (on top of figuring out they don’t cover white fillings). The reason for only paying $800 is because that was all that was left in Charlie’s limit for the year…which they don’t mention in the predetermination! So not only did the dentist have surprises for me, so did insurance. So instead of a $550 bill, we’re paying close to $2 grand! And since the services are already done, there’s no negotiating. And just like my oral surgeon, they want their money asap and they’re not going to budge on what is owed. The ironic thing is, we just sunk $2,000 in teeth that will fall out in a few years.

So, the moral of the story: ASK questions! Pay attention to every little detail, because you never know when it’ll come back to bite you. Keep good records. Check with your insurance, don’t just believe what the doctor says. If you can, get everything in writing.

Another little thing the dentist did with both the first visit and the hospital visit, is that they conveniently forgot to write off the discount they give for being in network. If I hadn’t cross referenced with my explanation of benefits, I might’ve paid even more than I owed.

Also, my mistake was that I didn’t notice where the insurance said in the predetermination that they don’t cover white fillings, and I didn’t ask if they do silver. I assumed that because they were in network, things would go smoothly.

And one thing I’ve found is that doctors just want to do their jobs and don’t want to talk money. And kinda like “good cop, bad cop,” their billing office might not have the bedside manner after the service, that the doctor has. So while you may trust your doctor, be careful with the billing people.

That’s all I have to say about that. ;)

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