Around the House

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We’ve had a good week at home this week. No one has been sick. And we haven’t done any traveling. And the weather’s been perfect. Truly made for a good week. Here are the little updates:

Charlie

~Charlie has improved in his speech so much. He’s even more clear as he talks and can truly tell stories now. Like today he said, “Sometimes it rains outside, and sometimes it doesn’t rain outside.”

~Charlie’s also become quite bossy. Chuck says, “I wonder where he got that from?” (me). I guess it goes with the whole strong -willed leader personality, and with being a big brother. But he even bosses Chuck and me around. Anytime I play with him, he tells me what to do the whole time. Last night as he was watching tv (and I was on the laptop), I heard things like, “Mommy, you go turn that light off? Mommy, you cook me a hot dog? Mommy, you go get my Lightning McQueen out of my room?” And somedays I get so sick of hearing “Mommy.” Mommy this, Mommy that, all day long. I know I should treasure it, but literally I think he said it over a thousand times one day.

~We’re getting closer to potty training. This week I often made excuses for needing to delay putting on his diaper, so he would just go on the potty. Pretty soon he liked it. Now on the days he goes diaperless, he potties all day. On the days we have diapers, still no pottying. But at least we’re getting closer.

~And to help with the pottying thing, I’ve decided the boys can swim naked in their little pool. I am sure the neighbors love that, hehe. But I’ve given up on keeping them in swim trunks/ swimming diapers. The boys have so much fun in the nude, and it’s just so cute and innocent. I have lots of funny pics, but of course, I’m not about to post’em ;)

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[Charlie drinks from the sprinklers over his pool.]

~To follow up with how Charlie’s behaving in Bible class, this week was his last week and once again, the teacher said he did great. No issues. Whew!

Chance

~Chance has been growing! Just yesterday as I got him out of his crib, there was a noticeable difference in his size! He’s getting taller, for sure. And he’s still working on words. So far, he’s mastered: Momma, Daddy, hi, Bye Bye, waffle (although it’s more like “favul”), woof woof, choo choo, night night, vroom, bath, Nana, and banana. He’s working on: kitty, grape, out, all done, more, and ball. It’s fun to say a word to him and hear him try to imitate it. He gets really close most of the time.

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[Chance always eats double-fisted; with both hands!]

~Chance has also been into taking his diaper off before going to sleep. Like, at least 4 times in the last week. He also loves to throw his pacifiers out of the crib. It’s amazing how easily those things get lost!

~He’s no longer the good little sitter he used to be. When we go to stores, he’s not so content to sit in the cart/stroller. And at home he usually fights sitting in the high chair. So I’ve started letting him sit at the table, although he’s really too short to reach the food. Maybe it’s time to go to booster seats?

~Chance is so much fun to watch go down stairs. He basically does a controlled slide. It’s hilarious!

~Today as I grabbed the camera to take a pic of Chance, he said “Cheeeee”. I think he was trying to say Cheese. What’s funny about that is I don’t normally tell the boys to say Cheese, I just photograph them in whatever they’re doing. Charlie, however, does like to run around the house with his play camera and tell everyone to say Cheese. So that must be where he got it. What a smart little guy!

~Chance also loves to play “peek-a-boo.” He loves to run into another room and have you call “Where is Chance?” He gives himself away by laughing. Then he likes to come around the corner, and for you to say “There’s Chance! Peek-A-Boo!!”

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[Chance got "stuck" in this barstool this morning. It was so funny! He had no idea how to get out. I guess I'm a mean Mommy for taking pics instead of rescuing him ;) ]

I’ve been trying to stay home more to conserve money and spend more time with the kids, and I must say I truly enjoy it. The continuous housework gets a little old, but I could hang with the boys forever. Makes me sad to think someday they’ll be in school! But I’ve got a couple more years to enjoy this, and that’s what I’m gonna do…Until my next blog :)

The Boys Laughing at a Movie

Happy Fiesta!

~Lately Charlie’s really into competition and reverse psychology. For instance, I’ll ask him if he wants to talk to whoever I’m on the phone with, and he’ll say, “No.” Then I will tell him, “That’s ok, only I can talk to (whoever)!” Then he comes running, wanting to talk on the phone. This works for goodnight hugs and kisses, eating dinner, etc. So last night, Chuck tried it, telling Charlie he was going to go lay in Charlie’s bed. But Charlie outsmarted him, and said, “No, I’m gonna go sleep in your bed, Daddy!” Then Chuck called me to peek in our room. In less than 30 seconds, Charlie was passed out on our bed…

Who's that sleeping in my bed?!

So, being the proud parents and camera freaks that we are, we spent about 10 minutes trying to get a good shot with the low lighting. Ha!

~Anyhow, today a neighbor invited us to a Mini Fiesta. Her daughter is in a Mom’s Day Out school at a local church, and the school was throwing the party. Since Charlie always asks to go to school, I thought this might give him a good taste, but to my amazement, he was too overwhelmed by the busyness to even enter her classroom. It’s an odd thing for Charlie to become shy! But then we went to the Fiesta, and he had a blast. Of course, I took some pictures…

Mini Fiesta Mini Fiesta Mini Fiesta Mini Fiesta

And I must say, I was sooo proud of Chance. The party was around his nap time, so I thought it might be hard on him. But because he was tired, he just sat in his stroller the whole time, without complaint. It’s nice when things actually go better than expected!

Mini Fiesta

Chuck joined us on his lunch break, and Charlie got him with a confetti egg.

Mini Fiesta

Here’s our neighbor, Mandy, and her daughter, Luciana, playing basketball. Luciana is such a beautiful little girl, and I love the expression on her face!

Mini Fiesta

Once we got home, both boys went down for naps without a fight, so I can blog. Isn’t that sweet?! Happy Fiesta!

I Really Should be in Bed

but it’s storming outside, which is keeping Charlie & me awake. So whaddaya do but write a blog?! :)

Please vote for me starting May 7th. There’s a photo contest Chuck had told me about, which I just entered. There are three rounds, so this is the first and the theme is “the meaning of life.” If you want to vote for my entry (in 2 weeks), click here. If you want to enter the contest yourself, click here.

This is what I’ve posted:

“The meaning of life is found in loving relationships. The Love of God led to finding my husband. The Love of my husband led to this precious new life. This is symbolized by the wedding rings. We were created for loving relationships, with our Creator, our family, our friends. We need each other and we need love, as seen by his tiny hand grasping mine. Loving relationships are truly the meaning of life.”

Alright, I’m going to try to catch some winks. Goodnight!

And 28 brings me…

…my first gray hair!

I never felt old until I had kids. Still, I know 28 is not old, but I am feeling “older.” 2 weeks ago, I found my first gray hair. While it can be easily hidden (so far), I know I have many more to come, and in many ways I’ll begin to show the marks of being an adult, and no longer a youth. It’s not really traumatic (yet), and as long as Chuck has more than me (he has 2 gray hairs!), then I can handle it. (Love you, Babe!!). But the inevitable cycle of life has become more apparent to me. While I hope that I’m wiser than I was ten years ago, I know I can’t relive those last 10 years and I won’t get them back. Each day, month, and year is so important because this is my one chance to live this season of my life. And it’s weird how, as time goes on, and as I see more people dying, even death becomes more acceptable. Of course, I hope it won’t come for another 60+ years for me, but I can accept that my life is moving in that direction now. Losing 3 of my grandparents and an uncle in the last 2 years has helped me see this, I think. And considering how quickly my boys are growing, and how time seems to be flying by now, I know I’ll be looking in the mirror tomorrow and realize it’s been another 10 years. Funny how we long to “grow up” as kids, wishing the years would go more quickly, but then we get there and wish time would pass slowly, like it did when we were kids. (Does that make sense?)

Anyhow, this weekend I went on a small Women’s Retreat with my church and was just amazed by it. There were over 50 women, who were all so loving, and there was no gossip or bitterness, just sweet attitudes. Most of the women were older. I only hope that as I age, I will be like them. There were women there that I just wanted to sit at their feet and learn the lessons their life experiences have taught them. How’d they raise such good kids? How did they keep their marriages strong and healthy? Where did they find their worth? How did they survive the many great trials they went through? Where did they run for comfort and healing? It was an honor to be rubbing shoulders with women who’d lived their lives, and were so honest about their victories and their failures, and cared enough to share it with those of us who were younger. And these women do it on a daily basis at church. They lead Bible studies for younger women, they mentor, they reach out. It was an awesome time of being encouraged and challenged for me. These women were living examples of Titus 2:3-5:

“Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the Word of God.”

OHC Women's Leadership Retreat
[This is me, showing off the wildflowers I picked on the roadside this weekend...talk about a retreat!]

I’m so amazed at the birthday gifts I’ve been given this year. They were all so extravagant: the Wii, the new camera, the weekend with Chuck in Marble Falls. And yet this one seemed like a gift from the Lord Himself, knowing my need to be mentored and discipled. Not only to have wisdom for what lies ahead, but to know women who have walked this road, and to know that I can do it, because they did. He knew better than I did how much this would help!

I can’t help but be in awe…

…even if He gave me a gray hair!

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